Do You Pay to Make the Grade?

By Olivia Pitkenthly
Pay to Make the Grade

The start of a new school year brings hope that this year will be just as good, orĀ even better, than the last. However, as the year carries on, are they still motived to do well in school? Ā You want to motivate them to study for tests and complete homeworkĀ assignments. For some kids, the feeling of accomplishment is rewarding enough.Ā Others need an extra incentive, something they can actually hold in their hands.

Most parents see school as their childā€™sĀ job, and if parents are paid for doing theirĀ jobs, why shouldnā€™t their children getĀ paid as well? According to the AmericanĀ Institute of Certified Public Accountants,Ā 48% of parents financially rewardĀ their children for good grades. The averageĀ price for an A is $16.60.

Harvard economics professor RolandĀ Fryer studied nearly 40,000 students inĀ lower income schools throughout theĀ United States to determine the efficacyĀ of financial rewards. He paid ninth gradeĀ students in Chicago $50 for every A theyĀ received on their report card, but theĀ results were minimal. By the end of theĀ year, the average GPA had risen from 1.9Ā to 2.0, and test scores for state reading andĀ math did not change at all. Unfortunately,Ā though the kids had a reward to strive for,Ā they didnā€™t have the strategies to succeed.

Amy McCready, parenting educator andĀ founder of PositiveParentingSolutions.com,Ā wrote that paying for grades fosters a senseĀ of entitlement. ā€œIf the reward is moneyĀ for good grades,ā€ she wrote, ā€œit sends theĀ message that the reason to work hard inĀ school is to enrich your wallet rather thanĀ your mind. It robs them of the ability toĀ cultivate a love of learning and a sense ofĀ responsibility for their own education.ā€

One way to cultivate learning is to haveĀ older siblings teach younger siblings.Ā Younger children are required to read everyĀ night as part of their homework. Have bigĀ brother or sister sit with the little ones andĀ help them pronounce unfamiliar words.

This activity will create a bond betweenĀ them, give the older children a sense ofĀ responsibility and motivate the youngerĀ ones to work harder to impress them.

For older children, limiting screen time isĀ a good motivational tool. If your child isĀ failing a certain subject, let her know sheĀ wonā€™t have access to her iPad until herĀ grades improve. Same goes for socializingĀ with friends or anything else that might beĀ taking away from your childā€™s study time.

Remember to tailor the motivationĀ differently to each child. While workingĀ toward free time with friends will workĀ for one child, choosing a favorite dinnerĀ may work for another. Also consider eachĀ childā€™s individual capabilities. If yourĀ child is completing his homework everyĀ night, studying hard for every test andĀ still earning a C as a final grade, that mayĀ be the very best he can do. Recognize hisĀ strong efforts, not just the outcome.

If you decide to go the monetary route, websites such as Feedthepig.org and 360financialliteracy.orgĀ can help your older children (and you!) develop a savings plan and learn how to be financially savvy.

10 AlternativeĀ Rewards

  1. A trip to the zoo, beach orĀ favorite attraction
  2. Kayaking or floating down aĀ lazy river
  3. Making their favorite mealĀ or dessert
  4. Purchasing a new book, toyĀ or board game
  5. New item of clothing
  6. Dyeing a piece of their hairĀ in their favorite color
  7. Tickets to a sporting eventĀ or production
  8. No chores for a week!
  9. Treating child and best friendĀ to a movie
  10. Sleep over with a friend